Wednesday, June 20, 2012

The many Memphis homes of John Stephany - Hawthorne

The Hawthorne house

At the beginning of my third year in Memphis a group of us moved from the friendly confines of Rhodes' campus to a duplex a short distance from Rhodes.

Stacy, Jimmy, Greg, and myself rented the upstairs of a families home. Probably not the best idea for either group but it worked out fine. I mean why could possibly go wrong with four 19-21 yr. olds living above an elderly couple?

It was much cheaper to live off campus and Rhodes was feeling a housing crunch from its growing enrollment so they actually threw in some incentives such as parking and free lunches.

There were a lot p great memories. Listening to Greg and Devan practice their music, always an easy ploy to entice the fairer gender to our abode, watching Ren and Stimpy with Rojo who would walk over from Rhodes on the weekends. Many of held part time jobs for some extra cash. Stacey worked at the Squash Blossom and I started working at Fino's (Jo Ann hired me even though I showed up with a recently acquired Mohawk inspired by a dare at Mardi Gras).

The owners of Fino's, Terry and JoAnn, gave me a job and a home away from home. I worked their all through my college days and even on and off for a few more years as it helped finance my semesters abroad and multiple travels. JoAnn and Terry started as employers but quickly became friends and family. Terry accurately predicted the professions of myself and Rojo despite our ardent protests of his prognostications.

Yes, there were some epic "celebrations"; it was college, use your imagination. We all did a lot of growing up at the Hawthorne house. The friendships of the residents and our frequent visitors grew stronger. I even met one of my future co-workers over a decade before we would work together when she used to date one of the lads, proof that Memphis is the biggest small town.

We lived on the second floor. The place seems to have held up pretty well.

The Many Memphis homes of John Stephany - Townshend

The term sophomore means "wise fool". That explains a lot as Jimmy and I migrated across campus to Townshend Hall. The fact that it neighbors the freshmen girls dorm was merely a coincidence.

Stacey took a year off so Jimmy and I scored a triple to ourselves for the first semester and we welcomed Greg to our merry band of idiots.

I will always cherish afternoons when we cranked up the stereo, sat on the ledges of our 3rd floor window sills, and enjoyed ourselves. Fortunately or unfortunately the campus tour passed underneath our watch on a regular basis. I maintain we helped Rhodes enrollment more than we hurt it.

We hosted the greatest Christmas party in dorm history, made some Wonderful "eel" juice, hosted a "pro-stud" (prospective student) who scolded our behavior, and had many a great memory.

Other highlights were the reciprocal visits of Chip, Stephen, and Ronald, waking up to Allen installing a second phone line for his adjacent single room, our many visitors planned and unplanned. Good times..., good times.

BTW, we did go to class but they blend in. The daily life burns in your memory.

The Many Memphis homes of John Stephany - Glasselll Hall

As I was leaving town for my move to DC, a friend asked me how places I've lived in Memphis. The answer a lot. So forgive the numerous upcoming posts but I have a 3 hr layover in Chicago and this will pass the time.

My first "home" in Memphis. 23 years ago I moved into this dorm knowing no one in Memphis. I left Glassell with life long friends.

Some random memories.

The chairs attached to the ceiling, watching the Berlin Wall coming down from the social room, Mrs. Daughdrill walking into that same social room on a Saturday morning after she had redecorated (the green pleather couches were back the next Monday), throwing Coors light Party balls down the hall, the loud mix of Beastie Boys on bid day night/morning when Charles barricaded himself in the dorm, the late night talks with Jimmy and Stacey (roommates became life long friends), the rescue/acquisition of Ronald at mid-term (we are a still a real life Seinfeld Episode), Art's "100 beer" weekend, and just the general buffoonery thy occurs in a dorm that house nothing but freshmen boys.

Glassell is coed now, I can't even imagine. I guess for all intent and purposes it was then also.., unofficially of course.